I Am Tired Of Stereotypes!

A word of caution for my sensitive readers!

The following post is one that I will not be holding back! I the warn you to not continue if you can’t take the truth. I shall not and will not apologise for my opinions so if you disagree that’s your own problem.

Stereotype: A widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing.

We have all heard them; 

• Africans are illiterate monkey people who live in the forest, 
• All Blacks are good at sports, Asians have high IQs, they are smarter than most in Math and Science, Women aren't as smart as a man, 
• Men who spend too much time on the computer or read are geeks. 

And the worst one of all, All men are the same or All men are dogs. And it is this one I will be addressing because it the one irritates me the most, more than anything else. 

It is this un-contemplated labelling that breeds unnecessary arguments and conflicts in the world.

I fail to see how the transgressions of one fool can lead you to brand the entire group. What’s worse is that you hunting for these “dogs” leaving us the descent guys. I then am brought to the point of agreeing with the saying “Nice guys finish last”, because after having been held accountable for something I did not do I literally gave up on relationships for a period. 

It is mainly women who say this and it is these women specifically push the nice guys into the friendzone and go for the hunky bastards that cause all the distress and torment. You do it so why should I be labelled for someone else's doing?! Is it my fault that I have penis?!  

NO! We are not all dogs! Don't label me because you don't like it either & you butt-hurt even more when I do it! 

Also, as someone who is tech-savvy I find I get labelled automatically as a nerd, weak and puny and incapable of talking to women. But this far from the truth, as I have had girlfriends but because of the stereotype above II ended up losing them to some hunk that ended up hurting her whilst she left someone who would never do that, ME!   

So I urge you all to first understand, check and verify before you go ahead to label the entire group.

Just had to vent a bit…

Your VB Kid

Psypher